sigh.
they're such a worry.
please please dont anyone think i'm a bad mummy...
may i take you back to new years eve last year.... jasper peed on my parents bed - first time he'd ever had an accident and we just put it down to being frightened by fireworks.
jump to beginning of november - lots of fireworks going off round here. jasper runs in panting, really unhappy, scares me silly, but seems to calm down later one.
a couple of weeks ago he peed on my mums trousers which were on the floor. we did have the cat flap locked cos of fireworks, so thought maybe rather than actually let us know he needed out, he'd gone there.
monday.... i find blood on my bed sheets. panic. find jasper. he's fine in himself (soppy sod as usual
) check bum - fine, ears - fine, mouth - fine, claws - not fine. lots of them were sort of split, one was worse, and obvious source of blood, but other than him getting annoyed at me fiddling with his paws (as he always does) - he was fine. decided to keep an eye on him. had he been limping or showing any sign of distress or pain i would have take him to vets - but honestly - FINE!
tonight. he pees on parents bed again. no fireworks, no locked catflap - he just settled down on the bed with my dad and... peed. a big pee - so no probs with that. i squeezed him and he was fine, rolled over all playful and wanted a tummy tickle, purring like anything, fine.
so... whats he up to?
i'm so tangled what to do... he would go crazy if i kept him inside (i know lots of cats are fine, and i so wished he would be fine staying inside all the time but he adores being outside) but.... i dont know what wrong with him. he's is SUCH a skittish cat anyway, jumps at everything (unless he's eating - then very brave) and i'm getting so worried now. the other incidents seemed to have cause but lately... i have no idea. getting all tearful now
i cant work out if he's not happy or what... ... ...