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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #178 on: August 19, 2008, 19:58:44 PM »
Mabel's leftover meds are going to one of my ex-fosters, who also has stomach cancer, so at least they will be going to some use, and I am sure Mabel would like that.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #177 on: August 12, 2008, 08:11:29 AM »
Thanks.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #176 on: August 11, 2008, 22:16:12 PM »
I have only just seen this Desley and I am so sorry to hear the news  :hug: The photos of her are wonderful and its easy to see how happy she was with you and at least her final weeks were spent in a home environment with her own personal human.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #175 on: August 11, 2008, 22:14:57 PM »
Aw - an upside down kitty is a happy kitty Desley.  Well done to you for looking after her and your other "golden oldies"

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #174 on: August 11, 2008, 22:04:50 PM »
I think she was, and I am really pleased that she got a home life, even if I didnt quite get what I expected, losing 2 in 6 weeks is hard, and I am very emotional still - part of me thinks that I should cut back a lot on the oldies, as I am a lot more emotional than I used to be, but then i look round, I have a 15yo on my knee, and an 18yo on the bed, both had been in rescue for months cos no one would take them on (they were both younger at the rescue too, 13 and 17), and at least one would be dead now cos she was depressed in a rescue, and they make me realise why I do this, it isn't about me, it is about giving as many cats like these two the chance they have had, they didn't ask to come into rescue cos their owner was too ill to look after them, and they didn't deserve to be ignored simply because of their age. I will have a break from taking oldies in (well, i say that, I generally don't choose them, a sob story makes me open my heart up again!!), and when I am that bit stronger, or simply when one comes that I can't turn away, I will have another oldie, as it would dishonour all my bridge babes memory if I do that, and leave more oldies to go unwanted in a rescue. I am surprised at the rescues response to it though, it makes me wonder if i wasn't told the whole truth about her, but they are nice people, and I have been able to save money, as they let me order food through their Batley's account.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #173 on: August 11, 2008, 07:19:42 AM »
More lovely pix, she looks content and I especially like the expression on her face on the one with the banana!

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #172 on: August 10, 2008, 19:07:04 PM »
Thanks, she did love to sleep on the carpet, bless her, and often shunned the fleecy blanket in favour of it - mind you, she had spent 15 months in a shelter with only tiled floor, so it was probably wonderful for her.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #171 on: August 10, 2008, 19:03:27 PM »
so sorry to hear about Mabel  :hug: but you did the best you could for her and at least she had that time with you rather than in a shelter.

Keep well  :hug:

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #170 on: August 10, 2008, 15:10:13 PM »
Oh look at her little face - she may not have had long with you Desley but you can soooooooooo tell she was very happy there! :hug:



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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #169 on: August 10, 2008, 11:25:39 AM »
Here are some pics - excuse the carpet on the close up pic, I didn't feel like disturbing her to hoover!!







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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #168 on: August 09, 2008, 18:48:56 PM »
Thanks for the kind words Roz, I have cried more today than I did yesterday for some reason, i did try to ring the rescue to tell them, she is going to ring me back tomorrow, as they were very busy today, and I was just crying into the phone. it certainly is the downside to taking on oldies, and the decision gets harder, not easier. I dread to think how long she had been ill, i suspected some health issue from Day 2, but nothing quite as serious.
i have no intention of adopting another cat at the moment, losing 2 in 6 weeks is enough for quite a while, but I rarely intend to get a cat, so who knows what will happen!! I do have space for another foster, so it might end up being another one who needs me.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #167 on: August 09, 2008, 13:59:05 PM »
Just a thought Desley....

Maybe (when you're ready) you should think about going back to the shelter and taking the little one who fell asleep on your shoulder. 

I wonder how long poor little Mabel had been very ill....probably for ages..bless her.  You were guided to her because she needed you.  Someone had to take some notice of her and find her the help she so desperately required.  It's so sad  :'(

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #166 on: August 09, 2008, 13:56:58 PM »
So sorry to hear about Mabel  :(

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #165 on: August 09, 2008, 12:57:29 PM »
Oh Des,

I'm so sorry to hear about Mabel.  i've only just read this thread and it is too sad for words.  I was unaware of Rosie's parting too...bless her.  :hug: :hug:

It is one of the downsides of taking on older cats unfortunately...especially if they have been strays before being rescued because they will have had months or years of neglect before being found which doesn't do them any good...poor little darlings.  So much for life in the wild.

But you continue to give your heart to these sad little souls and thank goodness that you do.  Like you, I just wish they could know love and kindness for a little longer but as I've posted before, it seems that once these little loves find a safe sanctuary, they seem to relax their fight for survival and give themselves up to the inevitable final journey.  It is almost as though the struggle leads them to their final shelter here on earth and prepares them for their next destination....which is one that will be filled with love....and pain will be non-existent.

R.I.P. Mabel sweetheart...go play in those sun-filled meadows, where I'm sure you will find Rosie.

R.I.P. dear little Rosie....look out for Mabel and enjoy your wonderful new world together.   

God bless you both.

Thinking of you Des.  :hug: :hug:

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #164 on: August 09, 2008, 10:00:46 AM »
Thanks everyone - it is really weird how only having a cat for a few weeks can make that decision sooo hard - it was the same with Blackie (similar time scale and she also had cancer), in both cases I knew what was coming but agreeing to it in the vets was a completely different matter. mind you, in both cases, it hadn't been that long since the last decision (it will be 6 weeks on Mon since i lost Rosie). Fortunately I dont have any  plans for this weekend, so just going to listen to lots of sad songs, eat some junk food, immerse myself in a good book, and spend time with the rest of the bunch, it really has been a depressing week, so going to have some me time.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #163 on: August 08, 2008, 17:56:06 PM »
Oh Desley, I've only just read this. I really hope you're coping.

RIP Mabel, cherished if only for a short time. :RIP:




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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #162 on: August 08, 2008, 17:42:41 PM »
Sorry to hear this Desley  :hug:  RIP Mabel xx

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #161 on: August 08, 2008, 17:34:15 PM »
So very sorry to hear this Des, at least she had comfort and love for the last few weeks.

RIP Mabel have fun on the bridge  :hug:

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #160 on: August 08, 2008, 17:07:32 PM »
sometimes not having them for long is just as hard to bear, as you want that extra few days/weeks with them.

I know just what you mean Des  :hug:, so sorry to hear Mabel has gone  :RIP:

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #159 on: August 08, 2008, 16:58:34 PM »
Sorry to read this   :hug: :hug: you gave her a comfortable ending in a loving home


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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #158 on: August 08, 2008, 16:47:17 PM »
Im sorry Desley

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #157 on: August 08, 2008, 12:13:04 PM »
So sorry to read this.

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #156 on: August 08, 2008, 11:23:39 AM »
Sorry Des  :hug:
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #155 on: August 08, 2008, 11:15:41 AM »
My thoughts are with you, Desley.  At least Mabel had her very own human and her own home at the end.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #154 on: August 08, 2008, 09:11:16 AM »
Sorry Desley - sleep tight Mabel  :hug:

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« Reply #153 on: August 08, 2008, 09:05:08 AM »
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #152 on: August 08, 2008, 07:54:22 AM »
i was hoping for a miracle, but sadly it wasn't meant to be, at least I gave her a chance though.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #151 on: August 07, 2008, 22:21:58 PM »
Oh no, I was hoping for that miracle too.  Poor little girl RIP sweet Mabel

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« Reply #150 on: August 07, 2008, 21:49:31 PM »
So Sorry to hear this Desley!

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #149 on: August 07, 2008, 21:32:15 PM »
RIP Sweet Mabel. :(

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #148 on: August 07, 2008, 21:32:03 PM »
 :hug: :hug: :hug: It is always a hard decision - but you know it was the right one. As you say, at least she had some time at liberty and loved .... :hug: :hug:

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #147 on: August 07, 2008, 21:27:26 PM »
So Sorry  :hug:  I was hoping for a miracle with Mabel but it wasn't to be.  RIP Mabel.

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« Reply #146 on: August 07, 2008, 21:05:57 PM »
So sorry to read this Desley - as least she died having had a happy home , even if for only a short time. :hug:



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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #145 on: August 07, 2008, 20:47:44 PM »
I know, it is just so unfair though. The vet did say that with how her tum felt and her general condition, she was surprised she wasn't being sick on a regular basis, that was one thing in her favour, she was rarely sick. At least I agreed to take her on regardless of litter tray habits so her last 5.5 weeks were in a home, with carpet (she chose to sleep on the stairs, and invariably ignored blankets). Everyone at the rescue loved her, she was such a sweet, gentle cat.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #144 on: August 07, 2008, 20:46:12 PM »
So sorry  :hug:

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #143 on: August 07, 2008, 20:45:16 PM »
Des sadly somethings are'nt meant to be

But she died knowing love and the best bit being your cat so although only borrowed for a short time leaving heartfelt memories and a lot of humans missing her as well as you :hug:

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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #142 on: August 07, 2008, 20:41:47 PM »
Sadly, the outcome was what I suspected. She checked her mouth for me, as she still wasn't eating all her food, and there were ulcers in her mouth, whereas less than 2 weeks ago it was just a case of a few bad teeth, she was dehydrated, and her liver felt different, and the vet could feel nodules on it, so there were too many things going on to continue, the vet said she looked and felt worse than when she last saw her (and would have pts then if I had allowed it), I could have brought her home, but I would have been doing it for the wrong reasons, her quality of life was going. I just wish that she could have had longer here, after spending so long in a rescue with snuffles, but obviously it wasn't meant to be. The vet was surprised that a rescue had homed a cat in her condition, and she saw her after her fur, nose and eyes had cleared up.  RIP little one, I wish I had known about you sooner.
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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #141 on: August 07, 2008, 17:37:59 PM »
Best of luck at the vet's Mabel  :hug:

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« Reply #140 on: August 07, 2008, 16:39:51 PM »
Best wishes for your appointment tonight, having been through lymphoma too i understand how quickly they can go   :hug:


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Re: Meet Mabel - she's here!!
« Reply #139 on: August 07, 2008, 14:01:19 PM »
Am so sorry to hear this Desley  :hug: for you and for Mabel.

 


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