Thanks everyone.
Let's see.
Door open isn't really an option because it means Molly has to be shut in the kitchen and I really hate that (I'm trying to keep everyone happy here).
Had thought of a fan but they are too noisy.
Yes I've had him since a kitten and he wasn't allowed in here. Let's see I got him in October, he was shut out all the way through to Easter and that's when the battle started.
I've tried ignoring him but its impossible to do without him actually damaging the carpet ..... he manages to rip the carpet out from under the door bars!!!!!!!!!!! He also goes for the carpet in the cornering.
I had thought about double sided tape but that's what paws away stickers are and it has no effect on him, he manages to pull them off.
I have no room in here for a litter box - seriously no floor space at all. It still means if he's in here I can't have my window open. He would definitely try to escape, that was proved the day before yesterday
He had both feet out the window and I was wrestling him to come inside.
The way it used to be before his holy highness decided to change things was Me, Mig and Molly all squished in. Now he wants to joing the party but we are dying because of the heat.
I'm kind of liking Susanne's idea of the childprood door stoppers - it lets Memph in and out, keeps Molly in. But I bet you any money Memphis will play up and start harassing Molls then I'll have 20kg and 5 kg of animals running all over me
Memphis has me ALL day everyday, I can't do much with him when I'm alseep so he's not missing out on anything