Hi Dawn
I am doing this slowly. She is eating and going to the loo okay now.. She is a very friendly, affectionate puss cat and nothing much phases her. My Bella has had the odd hiss, Leo is abit upset but hasnt left home!! She is spending the day in my living room, as i have to allow the other cats access into kitchen and its extremely warm here today. I feel abit guilty about that, but i dont want to push it too far to quickly.
Now abit of a dilmena as i have had a lovely lady emailing me that although not local is looking to take on two siamese. We talked alot yesterday and have put things into place that she may take on the other puss cat when i we trap her (see other thread) we are having a go today again.
Melissa would need to go to another fosterer while i was on holiday end of the month, and although she is one of the most laid back puss cats you can imagine, i just wonder if i am letting my heart rule my head! There is no doubt we can offer her a lovely outdoor environment, but the other lday lives rurally as well and at the moment has no other animals, she has years of siamese experience and has even animal rescue experience. Its envitable that fosterers end up keeping the cats that pull at heart strings due to illness etc (as jesiri did) but Melissa other then being undweright (and she hardly eats a thing).. She is a very well, lean puss cat and i just wonder if i am being abit selfish keeping her and trying her with my two..
Have some time yet but its something i have been thinking about.