Hi Guys,
As some of you already know, Fudge came to us as a stray, we searched for a few months for her owner before deciding to make her a part of the family. The vet seems to think she's between 18 months and 3 years old.
She's always been a little skittish. She jumps at loud noises and fast movement still, (we've had her for 13 months now) She's terrified of being picked up, I'm not sure if this is just part of her nervousness or if something awful happened to her in her past. We can usually pick her up, if there is more than one of us doing it, kinda like a group hug thing, she needs to feel totally protected to enable us to do it, and even then she hides her face when we do it! We bathed her once, and I don't think it'll be an experience we'll be repeating too often, it took 3 of us and we all still bear the scars!
We try to do everything at Fudge's pace, we don't push her into doing anything she's not ready for. She is so loving when she's on a chair or surface and has the loudest purr I've ever heard. In fact she's sat on a chair next to the computer with me now, she's just come in through the cat flap, and is happily telling me all about her morning and having a nice neck scratch.
She seems to get along with the other cats just fine. Max can be a little boisterous for her, but he can be a bit of a thug! She usually just runs away from him when he wants to play, or smacks him on the nose...he's a bit dim though, it usually takes quite a few smacks before he gets the message.
She is at her least nervous when there is food around, every time someone moves, she flies into the kitchen and onto the worktop and starts doing her 'I'm so pretty' face and screaming in her 'I'm wasting away here' voice! She still seems to be constantly starving and although she's filled out a bit since we had her, for the amount she eats, she should be twice the size. I often wonder if it's her nervous disposition that's burning off all the calories she eats in no time.
OK, enough of the background, I'm sure you all get the point.
The problem I'm having is that she's overgrooming the insides of her back legs, she's almost bald, she looks so odd compared to Mia, who from the back looks like she's wearing a pair of pantaloons as she has so much hair there. We've tried the Rescue Remedy stuff and that didn't seem to have any effect on her. All the cats are regularly wormed and flea'd, so that's not a problem, there isn't any sign of irritation on the skin, so I don't think it's any kind of skin complaint.
Any suggestions would be gratefully received.
Thanks loads
Kathy...the phantom lurker (sorry guys, wrists are playing up big time)
Here's a pic of my little darlin' (If I did it right!)
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