Cheers for the fantastic replies. I hope I didnt come across as offensive, but im not really 'up' with animal charities and such like. So when I came across the Cats Protection website and saw how professional it was and how huge the place seemed to be (compared to other rescue homes) I was a bit sceptical - and so Im glad I came to a place such as this one which confirmed i had nothing to worry about
Im based in West Midlands and we'r going to see if we can visit one of these places soon.
Once again, many thanks for the warm welcome!
EDIT: Also cheers for the suggesions on what age to get the cats from. It may sound hollow but me and my girlfriend desperately want children but before that we would like to get married and what with rising interest rates we wont be doing this for a few years and so we are yearning to look after something (infact, its quite overwhelming!), it will be nicecoming home and having something need our love and in turn, giving us a bit of affection.
We want a kitten because it will be our pet from the start and then the family pet when we do have children. Sure it might be difficult at first but we'r fully prepared for that. We used to keep Hamsters and Mice but we'r after something that doesent die after 2years or so - its so heart breaking when that happens. But after looking after small animals we now feel right to graduate to our feline friends.