I didnt think it was so bad to have the collar on her. It was my sister who put the collar on.. the kitties mother had really bad fleas recently so i guess she thought it was the right thing to do .. it IS a collar for a kitten and not an adult. I will tell her though next time we speak .. and NOOO name for her yet, I was thinking Boadicea .. but its just a thought at the moment..
and Bengalbabe .. hmmmm I still want a Bengal, I have a large house and plenty of room for them so shouldn't be a problem. Its that problem of where to draw the line i guess.