We fist noticed a problem with Calcifer not being able to wee or weeing very little, the first time he was taken to the vets, he was checked over and his wee was going to be examined for crystals (which didn't happen as the vet was too busy in my eye this could of saved his life). About 5-6 days later Calcifer's bladder had fully blocked, which turned out to be caused by feline Crystals, within a few days the bladder would of ruptured, we took him to the vets, which they unblocked his bladder for £500, he was put on antibiotics and anti-inflammatory drugs for about a week, we got special cat food for him to help reduce the crystals. (feline crystal can be caused by anything, him being indoor cat, that he was neutered, that he was slightly overweight, that he lived in a multi cat household, anything really contributing to him being stressed. basically it's like bladder stones which get trapped in the urethra, its an on going problem that he would of had for his entire life). Unfortunately none of this helped, he was only on the crystal reducing food for about two weeks (which could of been three if we had know sooner of what to do) he got blocked again, we took him to the vet again and on 11-11-2017 we had to put my fur baby to sleep, he was only two years old, as nothing was helping the vet advised us that it would be kinder to put him to sleep than to continue to let him suffer as i said before this would of been an life time problem which he would constantly be back an forth from the vets. All I can say is that I'm just completely devastated, I loved him so much he was literally my baby, It still hurts now after two months, I feel as though its our fault, that we didn't do enough for him, that I let him down, he literally had everything a cat could want, but it still wasnt enough.
thank you for taking to read this, im just so lost without him.