hi i'm lyndsay and am currently without a cat, i stumbled across this website when looking to find someone who would understand how devastated i am at having to have our beautiful cat barney put to sleep on the 14-12-12. he was two years old and we got him when we found out that having more then one child was not an option so he was our second baby. he was my dd (whos 3) best friend and they loved each other so much, barney tolerated me and dh he adored pippa and would put up with anything from her, even though most of the time she was so good with him. he has left a huge cat shaped hole in our family and could never be replaced but in january we will be going back to the rescue to look for another cat. I'll be looking for lots of advice over the next few weeks, so hope you dont mind lots of questions
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