Topic: Phoebe is gone (Read 32416 times)

Jiji · « **Reply #110 on:** July 24, 2012, 22:07:45 PM »

Tiggy's Mum · « **Reply #109 on:** July 24, 2012, 22:03:10 PM »

clarenmax · « **Reply #108 on:** July 24, 2012, 10:33:46 AM »

Sue P (Paddysmum) · « **Reply #107 on:** July 24, 2012, 08:22:35 AM »

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #106 on:** July 24, 2012, 01:20:26 AM »

Stuart · « **Reply #105 on:** July 24, 2012, 00:55:42 AM »

funkiechicken · « **Reply #104 on:** July 24, 2012, 00:50:56 AM »

pappilon · « **Reply #103 on:** July 23, 2012, 22:56:49 PM »

Missing you so much my beautiful grumpy girl.

I know you dont like other cats but look out for Mister, he is young and need looking after

RIP my darling Phoebe :hug:x

Gail Bengal Slave · « **Reply #102 on:** July 25, 2010, 10:49:32 AM »

I am so so sorry for you loss - it is hard to know what to say, thinking of you and your little Princess Phoebe

xxx

Janeyk · « **Reply #101 on:** July 24, 2010, 10:09:56 AM »

Pav

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #100 on:** July 24, 2010, 03:53:38 AM »

Hope you went to Kockas party Phoebe

bunglycat · « **Reply #99 on:** July 24, 2010, 01:32:33 AM »

Beautiful picture of her

pappilon · « **Reply #98 on:** July 23, 2010, 23:58:19 PM »

RIP My sweet Phoebe.x

Bazsmum · « **Reply #97 on:** January 23, 2010, 23:28:55 PM »

Michelle (furbabystar) · « **Reply #96 on:** January 23, 2010, 22:11:39 PM »

Can't believe its 6mths either Pav

I like that pic too .... "erm excuse Me Mum, Can a girl not clean herself in private"

Send You a hug and much love xxx

Yvonne · « **Reply #95 on:** January 23, 2010, 22:10:58 PM »

Pav I know the pain believe me - try to remember the happy times

___________________________________________

We wish we could have told you,
in words you'd understand,
We wanted you to stay with us.
This wasn't what we'd planned.

We wish somehow to tell you,
How empty we now feel.
A part of us went with you,
A part that time can't heal.

We wish we'd once more hear you,
in your softly, rumbling purr,
to hold you on our laps again
and stroke your long black fur.

We wish we had you back again,
to fill this empty space.
But one day we'll be together
in a far, far better place.

________________________________________________

Thinking of you

pappilon · « **Reply #94 on:** January 23, 2010, 21:29:52 PM »

My baby, i cant believe its been 6 months since you left me

I have been thinking of you every day and miss you so much, its painful

You will always have a special place in my heart. I just love this picture , my beautiful girl.

clarenmax · « **Reply #93 on:** August 07, 2009, 08:46:54 AM »

Aw sweetie

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #92 on:** August 07, 2009, 02:35:13 AM »

Such a hard thing to do Pav and my heart is with you

I buried Kocka in a big wooden box I made after she came home and if I move I am hoping to take her with me cos cant stand the thought of leaving her behind.

Phoebe was beautiful before and after she was ill and through her pictures you can treasure her memory

Tan · « **Reply #91 on:** August 01, 2009, 22:56:37 PM »

Specially for you Phoebe - http://www.purrsinourhearts.co.uk/index.php/topic,26724.msg468923.html#msg468923

MrsR · « **Reply #90 on:** July 28, 2009, 17:28:33 PM »

Oh hunnie I am so sorry

Play hard little one with my Vesti and Sofa x

Janeyk · « **Reply #89 on:** July 28, 2009, 08:34:26 AM »

We always get our cats cremated and for me there are lots of mixed emotions picking up the ashes because it's very emotional and you anticipate that but at the same time you just want them back home with you - where they belong

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #88 on:** July 28, 2009, 08:13:53 AM »

I am glad your head feels a bit better and good luck when her ashes come back - it is something I have never done either.

pappilon · « **Reply #87 on:** July 28, 2009, 00:46:27 AM »

Quote from: bunglycat on July 28, 2009, 00:39:30 AM

So sorry Pav for your losses and the awful time you are going through .
Phoebe and Boy had the best home any cat could have wished for with you .
I have my Oscar and Bonnies ashes with me in my bedroom with their photos and i talk to them every night and tell them we will be all together forever one day and i really hope thats true as thats all i ever want one day .
Take care

Thankyou so much for your kind words.

bunglycat · « **Reply #86 on:** July 28, 2009, 00:39:30 AM »

So sorry Pav for your losses and the awful time you are going through .
Phoebe and Boy had the best home any cat could have wished for with you .
I have my Oscar and Bonnies ashes with me in my bedroom with their photos and i talk to them every night and tell them we will be all together forever one day and i really hope thats true as thats all i ever want one day .
Take care

pappilon · « **Reply #85 on:** July 28, 2009, 00:25:13 AM »

Quote from: Desley (book tigger) link=topic=26476.msg 466118#msg 466118 date=1248677607

Pav, things are bound to be hard with losing the two of them so close together - if your head is hurting due to being upset, make sure you drink enough, I found out when I lost Ginger how you can get dehydrated from crying. Just give yourself time, we are always here for you if you want to talk.

Thanks Desley, i took your advice and started drinking water, i didn't know you get dehydrated from crying. My head feels better tonight, thankyou.x
I went to my vet today to pay the bill, and asked if Phoebe's ashes are back and when they said not yet i was relieved, because i wasn't sure how i am going to deal with it i never had my babies ashes .
Thankx Ruth and Gillian for your posts. xx

Gillian Harvey · « **Reply #84 on:** July 28, 2009, 00:09:55 AM »

Take care Pav

RIP Pheobe, god bless.

Bazsmum · « **Reply #83 on:** July 27, 2009, 13:05:57 PM »

Desley (booktigger) · « **Reply #82 on:** July 27, 2009, 07:53:27 AM »

Pav, things are bound to be hard with losing the two of them so close together - if your head is hurting due to being upset, make sure you drink enough, I found out when I lost Ginger how you can get dehydrated from crying. Just give yourself time, we are always here for you if you want to talk.

Janeyk · « **Reply #81 on:** July 27, 2009, 06:31:22 AM »

I too have kept all the collars of my kitties and special toys of theirs and have all their ashes and they will be put with ours. I still feel grieve and can't look at photos of Schui now and even think of him without getting tearful still but I'm sure the pain will ease in time as it has with all my cats and yours too Pav

but I still think of them all everyday and talk about them all the time too

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #80 on:** July 27, 2009, 00:53:44 AM »

I have kept all of Kockas things, I cant look at them but they are there if I want.

I so understand how you feel and I wrote down exactly what i was thinking about Kocka each time I was upset and gradually it became a memory of her with the things I called her and her little tricks and stuff, poems and I have it all. I think it helps to keep their memory alive for the future however painful it is right now.

I never want to forget my little grey girl and she has the same Bridge Day as Phoebe, 4 years on and I still miss her so much despite having the four others.

I think its part of the grieving process which is so hard to go through. I couldnt sleep or do anything my heart was just totally broken.

I first stroked another cat 3-4 days later when I first met Misa and Sasa and that was the first time I felt a bit better but the pain is still with me now.

We are all hear for you and we will give you as much support as we can

pappilon · « **Reply #79 on:** July 27, 2009, 00:40:27 AM »

Thanks trigger, i do that all the time but in my head not on paper.

Thankyou Tan, sadly with me i am not strong enough to keep any thing , it just hurt too much

When i lost DD and Jim i took every thing to the rescue, i did take Boy's thing to mayhew as well but havent had the heart to do Phoebe's toys and beddings but will do this weekend. They are always in my heart and thoughts but its too painful to keep anything.
I know it gets easier and i am so grateful for all the support and kindness i am getting from every one, i really am . Thankyou.

Tan · « **Reply #78 on:** July 26, 2009, 23:55:14 PM »

we all thinking of ya hunny

Thats a good idea of Tigger's to write about them.

With Rio i made a video with a very sad sound track and cried all the time but it helped give me time to spend near my babe as possible. The same for my Ben, my Ochi and Gizzymo. I have larged framed mosaic pictures in my lounge i made to help me be near them at my time of awful hurt.

Pav i still have all their collars under my pillow at night. I just can't let them go. They are a symbol of them being near me my boys

But hun it does get easier the pain of missing them , you do start to remember the soo good times with them more than the pain and they start to bring a glow to your heart.

Boy and Phebe aint gone hun they are watchin ya and with ya and one day (oh how wonderful that day will be) we will be able to pick them up and give them a huge cuddle.

Kay and Penny · « **Reply #77 on:** July 26, 2009, 23:42:00 PM »

we all understand Pav

have you thought of writing an account of their lives with you, starting with Boy perhaps

it would have you in floods, but it might help to think about their lives, and not just about the end of their lives

pappilon · « **Reply #76 on:** July 26, 2009, 23:35:33 PM »

Thankyou every one

The place i sso quiet without Boy and Phoebe

Not that they ever played or run around but just opening the door and seeing their little faces, and now they both gone

I just wish i could stop crying cos my eyes and head is really hurting now, yesterday was great when Ruth was here i talked and cried and by the time she left i had stoped crying and i thought i am ok now but i woke up at 5 this morning again thinking its time for Phoebe's med and then burst in to tears, so this afternoon i thought if i start posting a nd chat i may feel bette rbut i dont and i know its going to take time to heal but i feel so sad. Sorry for going on and on.

sheryl · « **Reply #75 on:** July 26, 2009, 23:14:13 PM »

Still thinking of you Pav - take care Hun xxx

Zenith (Liz) · « **Reply #74 on:** July 26, 2009, 22:53:05 PM »

So sorry

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #73 on:** July 26, 2009, 22:19:45 PM »

Yes and pictures you can post when ever you feel like it

Wibblechick · « **Reply #72 on:** July 26, 2009, 22:05:54 PM »

Quote from: Daisymac on July 26, 2009, 21:24:53 PM

anytime xxxxxx

You just make sure you take time to heal, we are all here for you x

Ditto

Daisymac · « **Reply #71 on:** July 26, 2009, 21:24:53 PM »

anytime xxxxxx

You just make sure you take time to heal, we are all here for you x

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