With meat isn't more of the phosphorous in the bonemeal?
It's the opposite - the phosphorus is in the muscle meat. It is the calcium in the bonemeal that binds some of the phosphorus.
I really don't accept that certain flavours of commercial cat food are better than others ie chicken, given that they only contain a min 4% of named flavour. Things to avoid are offal as they are really high in phosphorus.
From experience, most cats hate renal food. Tanya's CRF site has a list of foods and their phosphorus content - senior food (at least Felix) is a good compromise - the phos content is about 30% less than adult food although nowhere near as low as in renal food. I found ipakitine binders were accepted a lot easier than renalzin. My 2 CRF cats would never touch food with renalzin in.
It's really frustrating but the higher the meat content, the higher the phosphorus content. Hi-life wet seems to have the highest amount. Applaws/Encore dry is really high.
It is a balancing act trying to feed what is best for them and getting them to eat.
One of the dry foods I had the most success with was Happy Cat (from zooplus) the renal is around 0.3% and the senior around 0.6%
The wet food I had the most success with was Felix senior. They sell 2 different boxes of pouches, so 8 flavours (they used to have a senior foil tray selection but stopped making it)
Whiskas senior is probably lower phosphorus but I haven't seen anything to confirm it.