Topic: My beloved Dusty (Read 20666 times)

bunglycat · « **Reply #70 on:** February 12, 2010, 01:50:27 AM »

I know how you feel -even though i have 4 others i still miss Bungly looking down on me from the top of the Sofa every night -she was one of the most loving little cats i have had .

momma · « **Reply #69 on:** February 12, 2010, 00:08:38 AM »

I LOVE YOU MY BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BOY

momma · « **Reply #68 on:** January 24, 2010, 20:50:43 PM »

DUSTY I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU O MUCH. YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

LOVE MOMMY

Kay and Penny · « **Reply #67 on:** January 10, 2010, 22:48:50 PM »

it is a tribute to Dusty that you want to adopt another cat, momma

because of him you found having a cat a wonderful experience, and want to try to have that experience with another

if you hadn't loved him you wouldn't want to risk having another in case you didn't love him or her either

Yvonne · « **Reply #66 on:** January 10, 2010, 22:39:01 PM »

When my cat Cleo died I wanted to get some sort of memorial plaque to remember her by. I bought this one, though there are many on the market:

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/PET-MEMORIAL-DOG-CAT-RABBIT-PERSONALISED-ANGEL-FIGURE_W0QQitemZ300373806652QQcmdZViewItemQQptZUK_Pet_Supplies_Dogs?hash=item45efac8e3c

I know that it may sound like a cliche but time is a great healer and as each day goes by it will get easier to bear.

Take care Joyce

Stuart · « **Reply #65 on:** January 10, 2010, 22:34:59 PM »

So sorry to hear about Dusty

momma · « **Reply #64 on:** January 10, 2010, 22:12:56 PM »

My husband wanted to get a puppy. So we did a lab husky. He is beautiful. Heres the but I stil miss Dusty so much. I am going to adopt a furbabe in about 2 weeks. It might sound odd but this will be in Dusty's honor.

How do I get close to these animals, when I miss my little man??

Dusty I love you always

Love Mommy

Janeyk · « **Reply #63 on:** January 07, 2010, 17:20:51 PM »

Bazsmum · « **Reply #62 on:** January 07, 2010, 15:29:14 PM »

momma · « **Reply #61 on:** January 07, 2010, 15:10:59 PM »

I mis you still my little boy

Love
Mommy

momma · « **Reply #60 on:** January 05, 2010, 01:26:07 AM »

Oh thank you I understand now. But knowing me I wouldn't let it go. Very hard decision.

But thank you once again. I just want to know the furbabe in mine. I don't know if they have that here

Kay and Penny · « **Reply #59 on:** January 04, 2010, 23:09:34 PM »

perhaps it's a UK thing only

fosterers are used by rescues who either don't have a centre, or who have a cat who is unhappy in a rescue centre - the fosterer cares for the cat until it is ready to be rehomed and the costs are met by the rescue

if the fosterer decides she wants to keep the cat, then of course that is fine

momma · « **Reply #58 on:** January 04, 2010, 22:38:40 PM »

The foster is a wnderful thing to do, but I know myself. I just couldn't do that. I guess if I can keep them. I would have to think about that. But I really dont think it is for me.
When I hear cats outside my window howling I run to my front door to see if everything is ok. And if I can take care of them in some kind of way.

These foster cats come from where? And why are they foster?? I am not familiar with this.

bunglycat · « **Reply #57 on:** January 04, 2010, 18:45:20 PM »

Yes , i think i would be a "failed fosterer " too !!
I even look out at night for cats that occasionally come for food and then worry when i don''t see them -they have homes too !!

Bazsmum · « **Reply #56 on:** January 04, 2010, 18:12:12 PM »

I am like that Momma, I get very attatched hence two ex foster cats still with me....Its worth a try though, that way no pressure!

momma · « **Reply #55 on:** January 04, 2010, 15:05:08 PM »

I would love to foster bu t I get very attached to animals. I probably wouldn't give it back. It would be to hard for me. But great suggestion

Kay and Penny · « **Reply #54 on:** January 04, 2010, 12:53:35 PM »

you'll know when the time is right

have you considered fostering, meanwhile? - it would give a needy cat a chance of some home life, and it would offer you a chance to do some kitty caring without having to commit yourself

momma · « **Reply #53 on:** January 04, 2010, 12:22:09 PM »

I went to look at some furbabes to rescue. I had a puppy and was looking at an adult cat, but I just couldn't do it yet. I want to get another little one. I will try again

Dust I miss you and love you

Mommy

momma · « **Reply #52 on:** January 02, 2010, 13:57:14 PM »

Well today is 1 month you left me. R.I.P. Dusty!! I miss everything about you!! I forever will love you and you are always in my heart. My heart still hurts for you. I still see your little black face.

Please play with all the furbaes on the bridge.

Love always
Mommy

momma · « **Reply #51 on:** January 01, 2010, 02:17:41 AM »

Well it is New Years Eve at 9:14 New York time. Even this is not the same anymore. I really do not care rightnow that it is New Years. I wish my boy was here, but wishing does not bring him back.

Dusty I miss you more and more each day. You play hard my little Dust. And no that mommy is always thinking of you!!!!!

Love you always
Mommy

momma · « **Reply #50 on:** January 01, 2010, 02:05:30 AM »

Bunglycat:

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. On jan2 it will be a month. I truly can not beleive that he is not with me. I feel so lonely.. The pain in my heart feels like it will never go away.

I am so sorry about Bungly. I know itis so hard. I understand about x-mas. It did not feel like it to me at all. I am sorry Bungly had to experience that.

I wish you such peace.

bunglycat · « **Reply #49 on:** December 31, 2009, 23:05:18 PM »

So sorry to hear about Dusty - i am sorry i missed this thread- i lost my Bungly 3 weeks tomorrow due to cancer in the lIver so i know just how you feel as do most on here. Its been a very bad year for fur babies this year on here.
Dusty sounds a wonderful boy who had a wonderful life with you and you cared enough to do the right thing- i know just how hard that is - i am still grieving myself and certainly couldn''t enjoy Xmas this year - although i still have the other 4 it just wasn''t the same .
I hope Dusty finds you another fur baby to love when you are ready

clarenmax · « **Reply #48 on:** December 31, 2009, 09:04:56 AM »

I'm sure all our Bridge Babes will be watching over us today

xxx

momma · « **Reply #47 on:** December 31, 2009, 01:14:30 AM »

Pappilon:

Thank you. I am sure you understand. I hope your heart can heal. I am sending you big

xxx

pappilon · « **Reply #46 on:** December 31, 2009, 00:12:52 AM »

Sending you a big

sweetie.xx
I know what you are going through.

momma · « **Reply #45 on:** December 30, 2009, 23:51:40 PM »

THANK YOU SHERYL.

BACK TO YOU

HAPPY NEW YEAR

sheryl · « **Reply #44 on:** December 30, 2009, 16:42:01 PM »

Big

Momma xxx

momma · « **Reply #43 on:** December 30, 2009, 14:58:59 PM »

HAPPY NEW YEAR DUSTY. PLAY WITH MOMMA AND BUBBA AND ALL YOUR NEW FRIENDS

MISS YOU
LOVE
MOMMY

momma · « **Reply #42 on:** December 29, 2009, 11:58:40 AM »

It is about to be new years and my little dust is not here. It hurts so bad. Coming on a month since he is gone. I really just cant beleive it. I am trying to get myself together. I pray it happens.

Dust I love you little man always

Love mommy

momma · « **Reply #41 on:** December 28, 2009, 12:57:54 PM »

Trigger:
That is what I am hoping for. Thank you for writing me. It helps me when people respond.

Thank you

Kay and Penny · « **Reply #40 on:** December 28, 2009, 12:45:39 PM »

having another cat will fill the need to have a cat in your home, but not your feelings of loss for Dusty - they will never leave you

but another cat which really needs you will let you back into the world of cat while you grieve, and I'm sure that will help

momma · « **Reply #39 on:** December 28, 2009, 12:35:57 PM »

Heading into New Years. Dusty I love you. I pray you are with Momma and Bubba.

It still hurts so bad not having him here. But I have it him in my heart. I am thinking of adopting again. Getting closer to it so another furbabe can have a loving home. Maybe it will help me. I guess we will see.

I dont no. I no everyone on here knows how I feel. So I just need to write on here because you all understand

momma · « **Reply #38 on:** December 27, 2009, 00:32:55 AM »

Well xmas is gone was not the same. I love you Dusty. I miss you playing in the all the boxes

Forever in my heart

Mommy

Bazsmum · « **Reply #37 on:** December 24, 2009, 14:00:43 PM »

momma · « **Reply #36 on:** December 24, 2009, 12:55:42 PM »

MY XMAS DUSTY MOMMOY LOVES YOU AND MISSES YOU

I AM STILL HEARTBROKEN. I MISS YOUR FACE

LOVE YOU
MOMMY

momma · « **Reply #35 on:** December 23, 2009, 18:52:33 PM »

Thank you for your support. Everyone that has written me has been wonderful.

right back to you.

You have to be a true animal lover to understand the pain. I wish you much healing to you.

Thanks again

madpants · « **Reply #34 on:** December 23, 2009, 17:01:50 PM »

So sorry to hear of your loss, i've only just read this thread. Its heart breaking when you lose a beloved pet, and often people just don't understand your grief,
but many of us on here have been through the same, and are here to support you no matter how you are feeling. Sending comforting hugs

momma · « **Reply #33 on:** December 23, 2009, 14:47:34 PM »

Clarenmax:

Thank you for your kind words. It means so much to me. I know Dusty would love me to take care of another furbabe. I am so glad you found Poot and he helped you.

I am lonely without a furbabe. I qm lonely without Dusty. BUT I did take the frst step walking into a store with furbabes. And I held a little 1 year old but my husband asked me to please wait. But if I felt the connection I would of grabbed him. Time will letme know and my little man as well.

Thank you for your kind words again. It means a lot to me that I can talk to people who have gone through what I am going thru. Not that I wish this heartache on anyone.

You and your family have a Happy and Healthy holiday

Joyce

clarenmax · « **Reply #32 on:** December 23, 2009, 09:26:39 AM »

Quote from: momma on December 22, 2009, 21:51:56 PM

Trigger: I hope you are right. I hope he does guide me so I dont feel guilty for adopting.

I totally believe that Dusty will lead a new furbabe your way

Max did it for me, and I honestly do believe that Dusty will for you too. You have nothing to feel guilty about, if you have enough space in your heart and home to adopt another cat in need, then I'm sure Dusty will be extremely proud of you

We never forget those who have left us, but by loving another, we can give them an amazing life too

And I can speak from experience too, when I first lost Max I couldnt imagine having another cat for a while, but when we learned of Poot, well, as soon as we saw him we new it was destiny that we were brought together.

I'm sure you'll feel the same when you see a furry little face looking your way, honestly

momma · « **Reply #31 on:** December 22, 2009, 21:51:56 PM »

Clarenmas:
I also think Christmas will be hard on all of us as well for a very long time. I took some x-mas decorations out and saw Dustys little stocking. My heart just sunk. I will light a candle for you.

Trigger: I hope you are right. I hope he does guide me so I dont feel guilty for adopting. I will also light a candle for you as well.

You both be well

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