I know all about that kind of thing, many, many, many years ago when we had our first cat, (not my first cat but first as a new family) I nipped over to Mums who lived opposite, on coming back over the road I you could see straight into our lounge as the house was lower than the front garden. I could clearly see Stuart playing with the kitten, yet as I walked in the lounge he said get it away from me (not in an aggressive manner) you know I am a dog person. I just told him what I had seen as after that he was fine. Then again he had to be otherwise we would have not been a family for long.