Ok so here's a bit of background on both cats and our situation and then ANY suggestions would be really welcome!
Katie came to me 3 years ago as a soiling cat - her previous family had moved house, had kids and gotten 2 kittens in a very short space of time and got very stressed. She's never soiled in the time i've had her. She's always very hissy and spitty at cats, but when we've fosterered kittens before, she's given them to odd swipe, but pretty much calmed down with them...
Woody came from a home where he was living with 7 other cats. He seemed to be the one who was bullied and in the interactions Liz has seen with 2 other cats, they've hissed at him and he's just sat there!
We've been swapping scents for 10 days now, have the Feliway plugged into Katie's room and swapped litter mess aswell. Now it's time for face to face intros which i'm really nervous about! If it doesn't work out then i'll be able to give Woody away when a potential home is found, but we'd really love to keep him as he's stolen a bit of our hearts!
Some books say to put the new cat in a carrier and place them in the resident cats area and leave them to sniff. Liz says that she usually just lets them loose. She also uses a water pistol to break up fights and my other collegue uses a tin with loose change in to create a loud noise.
I'm just really worried as they have a had a spat when Woody got out of his room, but then last night when I was getting ready for bed, I found Woody looking up at the scratching post and Katie was just looking at him, but no fisticuffs!
I mean when they fight could they seriously hurt themselves? How long does it take? When should I think it's best to re-home him?
Sorry for all the questions, but i've always been a 1 cat household!!!!!!
Jen xxx