Well despite saying we would wait til the girls have their vacs at the end of March/beginning of April, we got so fed up of being full of holes from 2 sets of sharp claws that we decided to clip their claws. Amber was sat all chilled out on OH's lap and I was playing with her feet, which didn't bother her at all, so I thought I would try and see what happened.
I only took the very sharp bit, about 2/3mm from the end off, miles away from the quick as I was worried about that, but it has made such a difference, they can come on our laps and knead as much as they like and it doesn't hurt a bit! Chilli was a bit less laid back about it than Amber but she still let us do it without too much fuss so I am very proud of both of them. Of course they got treats afterwards as they were so good!