Thanks for the support. I have had one of those days today, I dropped bambi off (left all worried but kept saying to myself she will be fine), I then went to the doctors only for a 45minute wait, I then went for a quick shop around Tesco, and while I was there my mobile rang (PANIC, PANIC) they said they would ring my mobile in case of emergency, it was the vets! The vets explained that they REFUSED to operate on Bambi saying that it was extremely risking because of her steroids, I was so blown back in complete shock, why would they let me pre book this operation to review her medical history on the day (and only because I ask, just to refresh there memory!).
Being honest I was totally shocked, as the specialist vet at dick white referrals keeps in touch with me every month to ensure Bambi condition is remaining well (regarding the diarrhea) I emailed him a week before her appointment to be spayed and checked about the medication (if I was to reduce it or not) and he said no keep her on that dose. So you can imagine what I am thinking WHAT? WHY? I was so confused to say the least, I told my vet to call Dick White referrals as he is the specialist and he said the operation would be find under the steriods, so he said ok. I then called the specialist before he could get a chance lol because I just could not sit around doing nothing I had to find out what was going on! The specialist at dick white referrals said he did not know what the problem was and why my vet was making such a fuss as it is slightly riskier but refusing to spay her all together! So he said he would talk to the vet, 10 minutes later I get a phone call off of my local vet saying he has spoken to the specialist and is happy to do the procedure. WHAT? I mean I am not being funny but one minute he is panicing saying he refuses to operate on her and the next he is happy to do it? I know perhaps the specialist made him realise the risks are small but you can imagine I am sitting they thinking do I go with my gut instinct and go collect her and not let any of them near my baby or do I trust them and let them go through with it?
They told me I could have the surgery done at Dick White referrals (as there specialists so equipment/standards and vets in general are far better) but the price tag is £800 which will not be covered by my insurance so as I student I had to say no, I can not afford it...I did not know what to do to be honest I had been started half to death with "I refuse to operate it is far to risky" and then "I am happy to do it" maybe I am over reacting but going from one end of the scale to the other was a complete wave of different emotions. I had to make a decision so I alllowed her to be spayed at the local vets, I am so worried about her now, I still have not got a call saying she is ok, I feel like maybe I made the wrong decision. But on the other hand she did need to be spayed because of all the benefits.
Did I make the wrong decision???? A very worried mummy.