Well as you probably know Sean and I went to see Tilly today and although she was totally beautiful, we felt as a slightly longer haired pedigree she wasn't right for us. She was probably about the right age range and was female but we both agreed that we would continue our search. However what it has cemented is that we would like another cat to join our family.
We would really like a female and as you can probably tell a DSH around 4-6 months would suit us. I think an older cat may not warm to Archie's playful nature. Ella is very laid back and loves other cats,
Archie is a bit of a livewire so we think a female similar age to him would be suitable, Ella has grown out the play fighting stage and Archie desperately wants to play mate for that. We have enough room as we have a 3 bed house ina quite close with plenty of exploring space. I think anyone that knows me knows that any cat that does come here would be idolised and loved. The only thing Sean has said, which is a bit sad but I undertsand, is that he would struggle with a black cat as she would have too many memories of Effie. This is hard as I know black cats get overlooked but I really feel he would struggle.
Any cat would have to like other cats as there is a little clique of about six cats that seem to play together in our road, all very harmoniously. They would have outside access but not a cat flap as Ella (and Effie ) only went out at evening and weekends and that has worked for us and them.
As a member of purrs it has really hit us recently how many cats need homes and this is why we have spoken about getting another. As Sean and I would probably find it medically impossible to have kids together, this is the closest we will get!
So if you hear of any one you think might be suitable