She has got alot more confident now but isn't a lap cat and doesn't like being picked up/handled very well. I can pick her up for a quick cuddle before she struggles to get down. I just let her come to me for cuddles, and she will snuggle up at night for a cuddle and likes to sit on my desk/table beside me whilst I'm working. Before I got Mary she'd had two sets of kittens and was only just over a year old. She came from a house that was over run with cats, that the owner couldn't manage so the Rspca stepped in and took all the cats. She now has a loving home for the rest of her life. I love her very much and she is my baby, as is Buddy.