heh heh heh - feel a bit smug - I love mine both equally. I get madly enthusiastic walks and floppities with Tess (who's a natural clown, bless her), but even though Paddy treats me with utter disdain (unless he's hungry!) I melt and go all "aaaahhhhhh" when he gives me the silent meow (feed me woman....feed me now...) or snuggles into the back of my legs when I'm in bed. (Don't get me wrong - I know he does it purely for warmth, but it's not Daddy's leg's he snuggles into now, is it...?!)