i used to work in the Hospice were my brother died and one of the volenteers who was there at the same time still keeps in contact with me, she phoned me earlier and when i told her my brother died she just said 'oh'! not....oh, i am sorry! and before she rang off she said: oh don't worry, so i said i'm not worried, but this is going to take a long time to get over!!
that upset me a bit, how can people be so insensitive? she wanted to know if the same people were still there! i said: i don't know, and: i did'nt go there to see them i went to see my brother!
next time she phones i think i will just let it ring!![ i have caller display ]
you people on here are more understanding.....thank you!
i could'nt believe her!! i am hurting here!! stupid woman!!!! she has no family of her own.
i have lost a lot of close people to cancer, first my Dad when i was 14, he had lung cancer and a brain tumor, then my Nan when i was 18, she had a brain tumor, then my best friend when i was 24,she was also 24, she had bowel cancer, then this year my Tigger and now my brother!
Kirst, hope your dad goes on ok.
chris.