I must admit, as a cat lover, I do always find people who are casual about their cats a bit of an enigma. I can't figure it out, because most of my cat loving, cat owning friends are always happy to chunter on about what their cats have been doing etc. Even people who look after feral cats seem to take a keen interest in the welfare and behaviour of those cats, and if I had a beautiful girl who was visiting other people's houses and eating a good dinner there, I'd want to know about it.