I've been feeling pretty sad about losing Tiggy recently, I had got to the stage where I could think about her and be happy but I seem to have slipped back and all I could think about was her last moments and the guilt that comes with what happened.
I'm a very straightforward person and don't really have any beleifs in what I call new age type things, but I decided to see if Tiggy could be contacted by an animal communicater. I was very sceptical but at the same time hopeful. She asked for a photo clearly showing Tiggy's eyes and basic details about Tiggy - name, age, sex, breed and the date when she died - nothing else.
I am now absolutely convinced that she has communicated with Tiggy, some of her points you could say are general and could apply to any cat such as 'She liked her little mice' and although that was true of Tiggy (she didn't really play with other toys but loved those little tiny mice you get) you could also say it's a good guess but the other things she picked up on were so specific and spot on. There was only one point that was wrong and I have tried to keep a level head and not manipulate what she has said to be what I want to hear, every other point 100% related to Tiggy. I'm not explaining that very well, what I mean is had she said 'Tiggy liked sitting on your knee' (which wasn't the case as Tiggy didn't do it very often) I didn't then think 'Oh yes there were a few times she sat on my knee' and take that point as true. I have been very objective and really thought is it true or do I want it to be true.
I also asked her to send some messages to Tiggy and ask her some questions, the messages have been passed and I have answers to my questions. I still feel sad and miss her like crazy but I know she is OK and doesn't blame me for what I did.
Here's some of what she picked up on....
Tiggy loved affection and long strokes down her body. - She didn't like having her back stroked so I would give her long strokes along her body, anyone who met her I would tell them the same, don't stroke her back she likes it along her body.
There is also a grey or black cat living at home, a male cat she considers her brother. The boys!
And you had a special thing where you'd touch faces very close together and touch noses. Rubbing heads. This is exactly what we used to do!
She said you liked to stroke her paws. I would lay in bed with her on my pillow and stroke her paws for hours on end!
Despite her sickness she remained remarkably well for a long time. I felt she ate less and less, sept more and more, and started to look very tired. Taking herself off to quite places to curl and sleep, especially her 'special place' Yes! Special place has got to be her tent.
It feels that Tiggy was dying of kidney disease/failure and you helped her ascend. This was the last line and made my hair stand up on end.
