Topic: Spotty has cancer - RIP - my darling boy has gone (Read 13974 times)

Tigerlily (Allison) · « **Reply #75 on:** April 12, 2011, 10:00:14 AM »

Yvonne, I'm so sorry to hear your latest bit of news.

I can imagine how I would feel if my handsome Simba and beautiful Lily were dug up. You must be heartbroken.

Tiggy's Mum · « **Reply #74 on:** April 10, 2011, 16:32:17 PM »

What a terrible thing to have happened, especially at such an upsetting time in your life too

Dawn is right though, it's the memories that count and nobody can take those away from you

Yvonne · « **Reply #73 on:** April 10, 2011, 13:02:09 PM »

Yes I will - thanks Dawn

Dawn F · « **Reply #72 on:** April 10, 2011, 12:41:45 PM »

oh Yvonne what is left isn't what is important, they live in in your memories try and focus on that

Yvonne · « **Reply #71 on:** April 10, 2011, 10:35:06 AM »

The workmen would not have known that they were there. The last body was about three years ago and their little bodies are only tiny to a mighty bulldozer. It is not just my garden, we are talking about a whole row of houses and many thousand tonnes of earth.

I have been feeling mighty depressed since it happened but I am hoping to turn a corner now that the sun has come out.
At least Spotty's grave is safe and he has a lovely big red cross on it RIP my darling man xx

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #70 on:** April 09, 2011, 23:00:09 PM »

Have they been excavated and been reburied on your land? I do hope so,,,,,,,,,,,terrible thing to happen

Yvonne · « **Reply #69 on:** April 09, 2011, 22:54:56 PM »

Thank you everybody for all your kind words it is much appreciated. I did not have as long with Spotty as I expected it was exactly four weeks to the day that he was diagnosed with cancer and then we lost him. Homer woke me up at 5.30 am (I have no idea how he opened the kitchen door which was definitely closed) Spotty passed at about 6 am.

I was very upset over Spotty but it was expected and he is at peace now, but just before Spotty died (missed any planning applications that must have been passed). How can I explain that would make it straight forward, our back garden is open plan and we back onto a major industrial estate, well my pets graves which we thought was on our land (three cats Jess, Cleo and Milly, two dogs, three guinea pigs and one hampster have been "excavated" to make way for Halfords. I have felt sick ever since. I don't really know what to do for the best but at least Spotty's grave which is just inside the boundary line is safe. I have been very depressed ever since.

Once again I am very glad that Purrs is here

sheilarose · « **Reply #68 on:** April 09, 2011, 13:47:40 PM »

So sorry, Yvonne

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Safe at the Bridge now, Spotty. See you all soon.

Sheila x

shirleyp01 · « **Reply #67 on:** April 07, 2011, 09:34:08 AM »

Our thoughts are with you

Susanne (urbantigers) · « **Reply #66 on:** April 07, 2011, 08:29:39 AM »

I'm sorry, Yvonne

lizfraser · « **Reply #65 on:** April 06, 2011, 20:38:38 PM »

RIP Spotty x

kerri86 · « **Reply #64 on:** April 06, 2011, 17:20:37 PM »

Aww, really sorry to hear about Spotty, sounds like you did give him a lovely life which I'm sure he would have appreciated

pappilon · « **Reply #63 on:** April 06, 2011, 14:21:01 PM »

I am so sorry Yvonne.

RIP Spotty.x

Tan · « **Reply #62 on:** April 06, 2011, 10:00:08 AM »

So sorry hun my love and thoughts are with you

Rest easy darlin Spotty, you will always be in our hearts

puggy1975 Zoe · « **Reply #61 on:** April 06, 2011, 09:22:59 AM »

Thinking of you Yvonne

RIP Spotty, you will be so missed but never forgotten

Zoe xx

CarolM (Wendolene) · « **Reply #60 on:** April 06, 2011, 01:03:07 AM »

Thinking of you Yvonne.

Run free at the bridge Spotty.

Tiggy's Mum · « **Reply #59 on:** April 06, 2011, 00:26:37 AM »

How are you doing Yvonne?

Maybe when you feel ready you could do Spotty his own Rainbow Bridge thread

lau200 · « **Reply #58 on:** April 05, 2011, 23:28:28 PM »

so sorry to hear this x sleep well spotty x

clarenmax · « **Reply #57 on:** April 05, 2011, 22:07:44 PM »

So sorry hunnie

snarf · « **Reply #56 on:** April 05, 2011, 20:41:36 PM »

so sorry

Tigerlily (Allison) · « **Reply #55 on:** April 05, 2011, 20:36:22 PM »

Yvonne, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news

RIP Spotty.

Steff - Petsearch Bedford HQ · « **Reply #54 on:** April 05, 2011, 19:11:21 PM »

*hugs* Yvonne

Bless Spotty for taking that awful decision away from you *hug*

bunglycat · « **Reply #53 on:** April 05, 2011, 17:20:06 PM »

So sorry to hear this

RIP Spotty - safe and pain free now at the bridge.

Jaxcats · « **Reply #52 on:** April 05, 2011, 16:41:05 PM »

So sorry, run free Spotty

Gillian Harvey · « **Reply #51 on:** April 05, 2011, 14:07:45 PM »

So sorry Yvonne

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #50 on:** April 05, 2011, 13:32:15 PM »

So very sorry Yvonne and he wanted to save you the pain of deciding for him. Shows how much he loved you

RIP Spotty, send your meowmy a message from the Bridge

Tiggy's Mum · « **Reply #49 on:** April 05, 2011, 11:37:10 AM »

So sorry to hear this Yvonne

RIP Spotty, safe and sound at the Bridge by now xx

Remember Our Love

I was chosen today
I'm learning to fly
the world took me away,
but please don't you cry

And I chose you today
to try and be strong
so please don't you cry
and don't say that I'm gone

When you're feeling alone
just remember our love,
I'm up near the stars
looking down from above.

Remember our love
In a moment you'll see
that I'm still here beside you
when you're thinking of me.

souffle · « **Reply #48 on:** April 05, 2011, 11:06:52 AM »

I am so very sorry... he felt your love and secure in this he took his steps to the bridge by himself. I think it is the best way to go. xx
Play well at the bridge Spotty

Liz · « **Reply #47 on:** April 05, 2011, 10:53:49 AM »

Yvonne so sorry for your loss, sometimes they take away the hardest thing we ever do for them he went surrounded by love and as a very much loved baby

He was so lucky he chose you to be his Mum forever he will be sadly missed but remembered with joy

cazzer · « **Reply #46 on:** April 05, 2011, 10:48:59 AM »

sorry to hear about Spotty

x

JackSpratt · « **Reply #45 on:** April 05, 2011, 09:48:10 AM »

RIP Spotty. Always loved.

Jiji · « **Reply #44 on:** April 05, 2011, 09:16:20 AM »

So Sorry

Janeyk · « **Reply #43 on:** April 05, 2011, 08:43:32 AM »

Aww I'm so sorry

God Bless Spotty xx

Dawn F · « **Reply #42 on:** April 05, 2011, 08:20:01 AM »

so sorry to hear this

Yvonne · « **Reply #41 on:** April 05, 2011, 08:11:46 AM »

Oh what a crap start to the day Spotty passed away at about 6 am this morning. Trev and I were talking yesterday about taking him to the Vet today and so Spotty has taken that decision out of our hands.

Spotty came to us as a stray and I hope we gave him a good life

RIP Spotty xx

cazzer · « **Reply #40 on:** April 04, 2011, 16:46:07 PM »

sending lots of

to you both

souffle · « **Reply #39 on:** April 04, 2011, 14:58:40 PM »

Do what you feel is right in your heart for you and Spotty. When our Cidie was ill we had this problem - like she forgot where the tray was but we just cleared up. She couldn't help it. We didn't mind and to heck with what anyone else says.
We only helped her on her way when her kidneys failed completely and there was no way back.
You will know when that time come for Spotty and till then let him eat what he likes I'd say. We stopped Cidies expensive renal diet when she refused to eat it and went back to normal. Better a few weeks of enjoying dinner and life than starving and ill

Gill (sneakiefeline) · « **Reply #38 on:** April 04, 2011, 13:52:09 PM »

I agree with the other two and to hell with what outsiders think

Tiggy's Mum · « **Reply #37 on:** April 04, 2011, 12:18:00 PM »

I agree with Janey, you know Spotty best and as long as he still seems to be enjoying life then I would go with your instinct

Janeyk · « **Reply #36 on:** April 04, 2011, 09:00:36 AM »

Glad to hear there's been no worsening of symptoms.

Quote from: Yvonne on April 04, 2011, 08:23:30 AM

What do other peeps think?

Only you know Spotty so well Yvonne, even more than your vet but your vet knows things you don't so I'd work with your vet.
So personally as difficult as I truly know it is I'd go by my own instincts (you also say your vet hasn't mentioned anything either) if you do feel unsure have a word with your vet is what I always do

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